How this all reconciles with other events (Such as her very public marriage to Green Arrow/Oliver Queen without anybody then knowing that Arrow and Queen are the same person) has yet to be explained.
While he's a charmer and a people person (if amoral), he still can't directly interact with anybody anymore, as they've been rendered as an unreadable grey silhouette with an incoherent voice.
Not only is he suicidally devoted to anybody who happens to need his help, he also took care of his deadbeat parents as a child instead of running away like a sensible person.