Harsh
Harsh adjective - Difficult to endure.
Tender
Tender adjective - Having or marked by sympathy and consideration for others.
Usage example: an especially tender teacher who loves having kids with special educational needs in her class
Both words in one sentence
- He's harsh and bitchy, yes, but if he does care for you, he can be surprisingly tender once in a while.
Source: Defrosting Ice Queen -
Usually happens when a tender scene gets derailed by harsh dialogue, but can also be an unsubtle Lampshade Hanging cue accompanying weird moments in the animation or plot - like in Episode 3 when Sailor Moon's tiara suddenly becomes able to bind a monster (something it never did before or after).
Source: Record Needle Scratch
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