Spite
Spite verb - To disturb the peace of mind of (someone) especially by repeated disagreeable acts.
Usage example: sometimes, I swear, she keeps doing that just to spite me
Upset
Both words in one sentence
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For example, Harry Potter fanfictions that make Dumbledore full-on manipulative treat every single thing he does, no matter how insignificant or meaningless it was in the books, as something done purely to spite or upset Harry.
Source: Evil Is Petty -
While her complaint to the management does inadvertently get Marissa fired, she wasn't being mean out of spite but instead justifiably upset about someone wearing her clothes and pretending to be her.
Source: Film / Maid in Manhattan -
In spite of everything, he and Yvonne are genuinely upset that they won't see each other again.
Source: Series / Goodnight Sweetheart
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Upset or Spite. 2016. Accessed July 21, 2026. https://thesaurus.plus/related/spite/upset.
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